Reconciliation demands a civil government, fair elections and legal system where the word “justice” has a meaning. What you don’t need are non-elected guys in uniform running the country.
How is reconciliation possible when your death rate is six times higher then your birth rate? You have a 550,000 strong standing military, yet allow the deaths of 556,000 by bad driving every year. The country has been invaded and is being destroyed from within. How do you reconcile that? In 70 years this will be a Chinese-populated country and Thais merely a dying breed to be replaced.