By The Washington Post · Chico Harlan, Stefano Pitrelli · WORLD, EUROPE
By death toll alone, the coronavirus has landed in the northern province of Bergamo with the force of a historic disaster.
But its alarming power goes even further, all but ensuring that death and mourning happen in isolation - a trauma where everybody must keep to themselves.
All across Bergamo, people are being picked up in ambulances, rushed to the hospital, and dying in sealed-off wards where even their closest relatives are not allowed. Many funerals are taking place with only a priest and funeral home employee present, while family members face restrictions on gathering, remain in quarantine or are too sick themselves.
So many have died that there is a waiting list for burial and cremation.
"I think it's worse than a war," said Marta Testa, 43, who is in self-quarantine, and whose father died last Wednesday of the virus at age 85. "Dad is waiting to be buried. And we are here waiting to tell him goodbye."
Other countries are only beginning to grapple with the pandemic's implications and the distance it forces between even the closest people. But in Italy, death by lonely death, its full cost is becoming apparent.
More than 2,000 people have died of the virus in Italy - half of them over the most recent five-day stretch - and many of those cases have looked like that of Testa's father, Renzo, a former newspaper advertising executive who felt short of breath last Saturday, was taken to the hospital, and did not see or talk to his family again.
"Grief is a phase that requires closeness, but our grief has had to come via the telephone," said Testa, whose parents had been married for 50 years, and whose mother also appears to have the virus but is recovering.
Testa's siblings bring food to their mother. Out of precaution, they leave it on her front door.
"Right now," Testa said, "our family is living in a suspended state."
Even as the virus has spread around the world, it is in Italy where people are contracting the virus - and dying from it - more rapidly than anywhere else. On Sunday, the country reported 368 deaths, a toll exceeding even the highest daily figures from China. By Monday, another 349 died, bringing the total in less than one month to 2,158.
And within Italy, Bergamo, a wealthy province of 1.1 million to the east of Milan, has become the most worrying hotspot. Hospitals are at the breaking point there. Military doctors have been called in to assist. Residents describe Bergamo as a ghostly place where only ambulances and hearses are on the road at night. In the small town of Nembro, according to the Corriere della Sera, 70 people have died in the last 12 days. Some 120 died all of last year.
"It's as if a chemical bomb has exploded," said Daniela Taiocchi, 49, who helps handle obituaries for the local newspaper, L'Eco di Bergamo.
Bergamo also stands as a warning sign about how coronavirus cases can explode if restrictions aren't quickly put in place. Italy dealt with an initial hotspot, in the province of Lodi, but placing 10 small towns under lockdown more than three weeks ago. But the government waited far longer to place similar measures elsewhere. Bergamo now has three times the number of coronavirus cases as Lodi.
"Morgues and health institutions are collapsing," said Claudia Scotti, a funeral home co-owner. "We were absolutely unprepared for an emergency of this kind."
The people who are dying, memorialized in page after page of the L'Eco di Bergamo, are ex-politicians, electricians, emergency phone operators, priests. Most are in their 70s or 80s. Their short obituaries don't mention the cause of death but don't need to; 90 percent, the newspaper's editor estimated, died because of the coronavirus. Instead, the obituaries have other clues about how much grieving has changed during the emergency. They mention "direct transport to the crematorium." A public ceremony at a "date to be determined." A funeral held in a "strictly private form."
Across the country, funerals inside of churches have been put on hold, part of the government's absolute restriction on gatherings. For families cleared to leave their homes, some in Bergamo have still been allowed to meet for small burials at the cemetery, capped at 10 people. But aside from those moments, the city has closed the cemeteries entirely, fearing that residents would take public transportation, visit the graves of those who have died, and spread the virus themselves.
The mayor's office has encouraged the cremation of people who die of the coronavirus. And on March 11, the local crematorium began operating around the clock.
"It never closes, and still we don't manage," said Francesco Alleva, a spokesman for the mayor.
The top editor of the newspaper, Alberto Ceresoli, said Italy is in the middle of a "collective tragedy," and that the virus is "decimating" the place where he lives. For a while, he wondered whether the obituaries should be bunched toward the back of the paper, to reduce the emotional toll on people reading. But he decided people needed to see what was happening: The names of the dead have been appearing in the middle of the paper, spaced out every other page.
"These are our great elderly who are dying," he said. "That they should go like this, it's deeply unjust."
It was in Friday's edition where Renzo Testa's name appeared, along with a headshot and a quote from Pope Francis. Below, there were basic details about his family, and several more columns with remembrances from his family, noting his dedication to the newspaper, his work with civic groups.
He'd been healthy before he caught the virus, his daughter said.
"No underlying conditions," Marta said.
"We were always thinking, 'Dad is strong He will make it.'" she said. "Of course, hope is the last to go."
The hospital called her nearly at midnight on Wednesday to say her dad had not survived.
His coffin now sits in a church, waiting its turn in line to be buried. If it happens soon, he'll be buried without the presence of his wife and children. Marta said the family still had plans to organize a ceremony in his honor.
"In better times," she said.