By Philippine Daily Inquirer
Asia News Network
According to the report, the child’s mother – a washerwoman – had no recourse but to leave her two young children in the care of her father-in-law so she could go about her work.
When her 10-year-old’s belly began to swell, she thought the girl had been possessed by an evil spirit – only to be told that the child was now carrying a child. It’s a heart-wrenching story that easily finds parallel in many households where the mother has to leave home to earn a living abroad. Among the estimated 2.2 million overseas Filipino workers in 2016, 53.6 per cent are women – forced to leave their young, vulnerable children in the care of relatives who turn out to be sex predators. Incest is known to cut across classes, but it is conceivably more prevalent in impoverished households where earning a meagre and desperate living trumps lingering concerns and scruples about safe childcare.
And in small closed communities where conservative views are dominant, women and girls are sadly regarded as mere objects for a predator.
The lack of education among the majority in such marginalised areas also perpetuates the view that a woman’s chastity is her greatest asset, hence the stigma attached to reports of rape and incest. Which might explain why no charges were filed against the grandfather: The mother might have feared the shaming of her daughter in a public court.
Zamboanga social welfare officer Maria Socorro Rojas said that in 2017 alone, the number of sexually abused children in the city was 126.
It was not clear how many were victims of incest as authorities lumped the cases together as rape. And well they may be.
“Minors cannot give informed consent, so it is rape,” maintained lawyer Katrina Legarda of the Child Protection Network, an NGO that provides abused children with medical and psychosocial support.
Just as alarming is how girls giving birth have been getting younger. In 2017, 52 girls gave birth at ages 10-13, 552 at 14-16, and 2,645 at 17-19, noted Dr Kibtiya Uddin, assistant city health officer of Zamboanga.
The latest data gathered over three years by the Philippine Statistics Authority recorded at least 40 babies born to girls as young as 10. Experts cite the Internet, porn sites, the natural curiosity of the young to experiment with sex, the lack of parental guidance because of the overseas foreign workers phenomenon, and even the lack of sex education and access to contraceptives among minors, as among the factors driving child sex and resulting pregnancies.
They are correct. Given parents’ reticence to talk about sex to their children, and with schools stressing abstinence over information, most girls have little idea about how the human body works, how to protect themselves, and what safe sex is. But one must also take a closer look at the Philippine legal system, and check how laws may have encouraged child pregnancies.
Child protection advocates point out that in the Philippines, the age of consent is 12, one of the lowest in the world. With the trend of young girls having sexual relations with older men – mainly for security – it may be necessary to raise the age of consent, thus giving young girls the leeway of putting more years in school and gaining more maturity before embarking on this life-changing decision.
Local government units must also enforce laws addressing violence against women and children, and prosecute incest offenders and rapists to the fullest extent.
Also, social workers must offer not just psychosocial support to abused children, but options as well on how to rebuild their lives, such as going back to school, or earning a living from tech-vocational courses.
As outrageous and damning as the case of the abused 10-year-old may have been, let not their hopes for the future be permanently dashed.